Humans might sit at the top of the food chain, but we’re hardly the only species that knows a thing or two about raising a family. Since Singlife adopted the African penguin colony at the Singapore Zoo in June 2025, I’ve had the chance to spend some time with these feathered cuties and they’ve given me plenty to think about. By observing them and learning about their behaviour, I’ve drawn important lessons about nurturing a family which I’ve decided to share, so you can see how even the smallest creatures can inspire big reflections on how we raise, support and connect with the people we love most. 

Before I dive into that, here are some fast facts about the African penguin from our friends at Mandai: 

But when it comes to parenting, it turns out, isn’t all that different across species. From commitment to communication, here are four lessons I’ve picked up from the African penguin that apply just as easily to our own lives.

1. Tag-team parenting is the way to go

In the world of African penguins, parenting is very much a team effort. Both mum and dad take turns incubating the eggs, foraging for food and caring for their young so no one shoulders the burden alone. This form of tag-team parenting matters even more for human families, where parents can run the risk of burnout if they try to take on all the responsibility themselves. 

Whether its managing bedtime routines, juggling school runs or making big financial decisions, raising a child is easier and more sustainable when both partners are involved. A shared approach doesn’t just ease the day-to-day load; it also builds a stronger foundation for the future, where each parent plays an active role in shaping the family’s wellbeing.

2. Foster stability through commitment  

Forget dating apps because African penguins aren’t into speed dating. These monogamous birds often stick with the same partner for life, returning to the same nest season after season. It reminded me of my own wedding vows to stand by each other in good times and bad, in sickness and in health, till death do us part. For penguins, that kind of consistency isn’t just about loyalty. It creates a safe and stable environment for their chicks to grow.

It’s a reminder that lasting commitment to your partner, your children and your future gives families the foundation they need to thrive. When kids grow up in a stable, supportive environment, they’re more likely to feel secure and confident. That’s why we put effort into building routines, setting shared goals and planning ahead. And unlike penguins, we’ve got an advantage – we can turn to financial adviser representatives for guidance. So, why not make it a habit to check in regularly and ensure your plans still fit your current life goals?

3. Recognise your child’s unique strengths 

Look closely and you’ll notice that no two African penguins have the same pattern of black spots on their chest, like how we each have our own unique fingerprints. At the Singapore Zoo, keepers use these patterns to tell the colony of nearly 30 African penguins apart. It’s a small detail, but an important one. 

As a parent, paying attention to differences between our kids helps us nurture each child in a way that brings out their best. Some thrive with structure, others with encouragement or room to explore. Understanding what makes them tick is the first step to helping them grow into their full potential.

Give your child a head start in life by building around your family’s unique needs and goals. The Singlife Starter Pack is a great first step that can help you explore insurance essentials that support your life today while safeguarding your family’s protection and retirement needs for the future. 

Need more help to strengthen your family’s financial stability? Check out our guides on how much you need to raise a child in 2025 and the importance of a personal accident plan for them. 

4. Listen and communicate with your family  

In a penguin colony, peace and quiet are in short supply. Between the roar of the waves and the constant flurry of movement, it’s anything but calm. To make themselves heard, African penguins rely on distinct vocal calls – loud, raspy brays that sound a lot like donkeys (that’s actually how they got their nickname: jackass penguins 🫏). These calls help them recognise their mates and chicks amid the chaos, keeping their little families connected and close. 

The same can be said for our world, where noise takes the form of endless notifications, back-to-back appointments and other distractions constantly clamouring for our attention. That’s why it’s important not just to talk, but to truly listen. Children might not always say when they’re feeling anxious or overwhelmed, so being present and attuned to non-verbal cues can make all the difference. When we create space for honest conversations and help them name and understand their emotions, we equip them with the tools to navigate life’s challenges. The more connected we stay, the better we can support one another through life’s messier moments.

Here's to a #BlackandWhiteFuture 

African penguins may live in a world of black and white, but when it comes to raising a family, their instincts are anything but simple. They remind us that love and planning are not just human values, they are universal. And while life may not always follow a clear pattern, having the right support can help you face it with confidence.

At Singlife, we’re here to help you plan for a #blackandwhitefuture, one that feels secure, supported and a little less unpredictable.