Money can’t buy happiness but the right money habits could minimise financial fights at home and make your marriage stronger. Jump straight into this quiz for insights on how to avoid couple money issues.
Why money pulls couples apart
Couples have been known to call it quits because of money – and it’s not always because of the lack of it or bad habits like overspending and problem gambling. In fact, high-earning couples are not spared from financial break-ups. Even if two people are compatible in just about every aspect of life, salary differences and family money can cause rifts.
Rising affluence can be a bugbear in some ways. More dual-income couples today can mean that young newlyweds’ limited time together is spent on immediate matters while nurturing their relationship post-marriage is relegated to the backburner. Lack of deep communication plus misaligned goals and values makes it more challenging to navigate financial issues – a subject many already find difficult to discuss.
The importance of having patience and those hard, honest discussions
If you think banning money talk will eliminate financial disagreements, errrmmm… good try, but it doesn’t work! In fact, making these conversations a natural and regular affair is crucial for a healthy marriage. So, instead of letting your differences create tension between you and your other half, or affect your mental health, speak openly about them.
Time alone together, be it a day out without phone distractions or an overseas trip for a friend’s wedding, can present opportunities to talk about everything, even money, in a neutral setting. By understanding each other’s approach to finances and making some compromises – as you do with all other aspects of couple life – it’s possible to achieve financial bliss.
At the individual level, adopting healthy financial habits from an early age can also lay the foundation for managing finances with someone else later in life.
Do this quiz together!
Dive into this marriage and money quiz and pick up tips from Pamela Tan, Team Manager at Affinity, who’s been in the finance industry since 2008 and advised couples and people from all walks of life. She and her team believe that there’s no one-size-fits-all financial solution – their focus on fostering strong client-adviser relationships helps to pinpoint solutions that are a better fit to the needs of individuals, couples and families.
Are you as compatible in money as you are in love? Take this Marriage & Money quiz with your partner.

Once married, couples should only have joint bank accounts because “what’s yours is mine and what’s mine is yours”. True or false?
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